Every single day, really good people get hurt and stopped in their tracks because someone judges them. These good people I am talking about are doing the best they can, and they, like most of us, care deeply about what others think of them. So when they are judged, they hurt inside and they suffer.
Interestingly, the person who judged may or may not even know the target of their judgment. Yet their judgment has the power to diminish the precious life-energy of their target.
Think about it . . . When you have felt judged, didn’t it feel like someone punched you in the gut and took your breath away? Or maybe it felt like a slap in the face and it pissed you off. Either way, your life-energy was changed by the judgment, and not for the better.
That’s what judgment does. It steals life-energy. It leaves us feeling fractured.
To me, that is a tragedy.
And that’s exactly what we do to others when we judge them. We diminish their life-energy.… Continue reading