There is not, and there never was, anything wrong with you. When you were a kid if you got the message that you were bad, that was not true. The message that you were not full of potential was not true either. And most of all, it was not true that you could not have […]
What if we replaced our negative comments with silence? Would anyone ask why we are being so quiet? Have you ever monitored the things you say and noticed the number of negative comments you make? If you haven’t, I encourage you to do so because negative comments not only hurt the people targeted, but negative […]
If we want something from someone, or from the universe, or from the higher power we believe in, I think it should be a prerequisite that we be willing to give that same thing (whatever it is that we want) to others. If we want others to accept us for exactly who we are without […]
It’s natural to want to fill in the blanks that we encounter in our lives. Blanks leave us hanging. Blanks make us uncomfortable. There’s a void of information that comes along with a blank, and try as we might to be cool with the unknown, most of us struggle with these blanks…so we attempt to […]
Every now and again I am reminded that I need to ask more of myself. This reminder serves me well because it causes me to check in with myself and evaluate what I am not doing because I perceive the odds to not be in my favor. At these times it never fails that I […]
