I Blog About Life and Leadership

Stop. Start. Victory.

 “The big secret in life is that there is no big secret. Whatever your goal, you can get there if you’re willing to work.” ~ Oprah Do you have a “chief aim,” desire, goal or dream? Something you truly, to the point of obsession, are going for in your life? I hope so, cause there’s […]

You Have To Ask For It

You’ve heard it often, right? You don’t get what you don’t ask for. Or stated in the positive, you get what you ask for. Oftentimes though, the truth is that you get what you settle for. Because let’s face it, when you believe your goals are too lofty or too hard, when you don’t fully […]

Come On Jack, Be Nimble

(Full disclosure…I’m a recovering control freak. I’m talking to myself here, but you’re invited to eavesdrop!) WHAT’S TRULY WITHIN YOUR CONTROL IN YOUR LIFE? When you slow down, unclench your jaw, relax your shoulders and un-make your fist…the answer comes.  And the answer is the key to your freedom. <go ahead, slow down, unclench your jaw, […]

When You Are Not Sure What To Do – Do THIS

“Anger, resentment and jealousy don’t change the heart of others – they only change yours.” Shannon Alder   What do you do when your anger, resentment or jealousy last for more than four hours? Do you call your doctor? Phone a friend? It’s more than a little awkward, not to mention uncomfortable, when you are walking around […]

Enough Already

If you believe that perfect is achievable and you feel bad about yourself because you haven’t yet achieved it, please hear me when I say this, “I understand!” I spent the majority of my life standing behind the murky veil of being perfect. Oh sure, I was unhappy back there. But I felt weirdly safe […]